Toke Makinwa’s Husband Saga [Full Story]

You are married to an African man and you will come on Radio or TV to
claim equal rights, you will soon be single. Simple!
Toke Makinwa who has been advising other ladies on how to keep their
man and stop him from cheating is now a major victim of the same
epistle. I no fit laugh, abeg! Not that I'm happy that 'my sister' is
in such a mess, but when you try to advise these ladies they would say
you're trying to control them.
Men and woman were never made to be equal. Do you know why there are
so many single mothers in places like America, UK, etc? It's because
their society is trying to force men to be equal with women and the
men can only remain in such a state for a short period.
Why should a man have a wife and be getting another girl pregnant?
It's the nature of a man. 90% of men, if not even 99%, have slept with
other women apart from their wife. So, why not just allow a man marry
two or four wives if he can take care of them, rather than force him
to pretend he is sleeping with only one wife, when in actual fact he
is enjoying several girls in secret…
Each time I listen to Toke Makinwa talk with Zainab and other ladies
on Ebony Life TV I used to tell folks around me that people like this
wont last in marriage. It's not difficult to see, they want to be very
very independent from a man and once there are two equal captains in a
home, a crash is coming soon.
Her husband, Maje Ayida has impregnated his ex-girlfriend Anita
Solomon and Anita is currently in the UK to give birth to their baby.
Sadly, Toke Makinwa who has been with him for over 13 years has not
given birth to any child for him.
Anita is a lawyer, so she is not an ignorant b***h but a sharp babe
who is ready to respect and love a man as the head, just the way a
real woman should and not one who will set rules for her man.
While confirming the gist that Maje has impregnated the Calabar girl,
a source said:
'It's so true…100% confirmed! Anita is in UK to have Maje's baby. I
visited her Aunty and they confirmed she's pregnant for a married man
from Delta, one Maje…"
Even if Maje try to reconcile with Toke later, the deed is done.
Dear ladies, it is VERY difficult for a man (African) to be with only
one woman. Forget what you hear in some churches. So, if you're lucky
to have a husband who is a one-woman-man, give him all the love and
respect he deserves. Don't try to rub shoulder with him by claiming
nonsense equal rights.
Love your husband and make sure you give "it" to him more than any
lady out there can give him!

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Redeemers University Post-UTME Form Is Out. Apply now

Redeemers University Post-UTME form 2015/2016 is out. The managament
Redeemer's University (RUN) invites applications from suitably
qualified candidates for the post UTME screening exercise for
2015/2016 academic session admission.
Available Undergraduate programmes:
Accounting, Actuarial Science, Banking and Finance, Biochemistry,
Business Administration, Computer Science, Economics, English &
Professional Communication, History & International Studies,
Industrial Chemistry, Industrial Mathematics, Insurance, Marketing,
Mass Communication, Microbiology, Performing Arts (Theatre Arts/Film
Studies), Physics with Electronics, Political Science, Psychology,
Social Work, Sociology, Statistics, Tourism Studies, Transport and
Logistics Management.
How To Apply:
Interested candidates are to make a payment with their MasterCard,
VisaCard and VerveCard issued by any bank on the admission portal
http://adms.run.edu.ng
Visit http://run.edu.ng/portal /Parent_Portal/admis_portal
/signup.php to create a profile before making payment with your ATM
card or visit any of the E-Tranzact partner banks to pay the sum of
Seven Thousand, Five Hundred Naira (N7,500.00) only for the Redeemer's
University Post UTME using the eTransact platform.
Supply a valid JAMB number and other personal details at the bank and
obtain a receipt containing your jamb number and a confirmation order
number.
Re-visit the admission application page to proceed to completion of
the application proper.
Post UTME DATE & DETAILS
Post utme screening holds Thursday, 18th June, 2015 at the university
campus. Then at Abuja and Port Harcourt on Saturday, 4th July, 2015.
Lagos screening holds on Saturday, 11th July, 2015. For information on
the venue, visit the school website on www.run.edu.ng

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4 Ways to boost your chances of getting a job

How do you get your application put into the "Yes" pile? I suggest the
following: 1) Read the job posting carefully. Exactly what does this
business owner or hiring manger want in a successful candidate? What
skills, experience and degrees do they list as mandatory? What do they
list as preferred? If you can't check off the mandatory requirements,
or at least most of them, it's doubtful that you will get an
interview.
2) Customize your application. It's worth your time to revise your
application letter to highlight the particular skills and experience
you have that match the job posting. Employers often spend only a few
seconds looking at each resume, searching for specific words that
match their most important requirements. If your resume reads as if it
belongs to a different job opening, it is going in the "No" pile.
3) Customize your cover letter. Customize your letter to the job
posting and anything else you know, or can learn, about the company.
The cover letter is your chance to show your personality and to tell
the prospective employer exactly why you would be great in this job.
Don't miss out on the opportunity. 4) Step away from the computer.
Statistics show that most jobs are found through networking. To
increase your chances, have coffee with your friends and business
contacts and tell them what you are looking for. Join local job
support groups to increase your reach.

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National Engineering Innovation Prize 2015 , Application On

NSE 2015 National Engineering Innovation Prize application is on. The
Nigerian Society of Engineers (NSE) is delighted to announce the call
for the 2015 National Engineering Innovation Prize (NEIP)
applications.
The NEIP honours and encourages innovative ideas and inventions in
technology and engineering careers as well as business opportunities
with potential of contributing to sustainable development in Nigeria.
The NEIP recognizes innovative breakthroughs that unlock new
potentials in the following four priority areas. The award is not
restricted to these areas therefore if there are innovations in a
different thematic area applications can still be submitted for entry.
NEIP PRIORITY AREAS
The NEIP recognizes innovative breakthroughs that unlock new
potentials in the following four priority areas. The award is not
restricted to these areas therefore if there are innovations in a
different thematic area applications can still be submitted for entry.
Agriculture and Environment:
Innovations that have demonstrated a lead in both agriculture and
environment, particularly, value added at specific points of the
agricultural value-chain. It is about providing new ways to ensure a
food-secure future. The innovation could be about commercial and
market-oriented farming as well as small-scale and subsistence
farming.
Transportation, Energy, Water and Housing:
Innovations that have demonstrated a lead in developing or applying
cost-effective, smart renewable energy generation processes, cleaner
water supply systems, effective transport systems etc. It is about the
way we adapt to climate challenges and steward our natural resources
to impact the inheritance we leave to the future generations of
Nigerians.
Information and Communications Technologies (ICTs):
Innovative ICTs applications that have demonstrated their potential in
addressing key development challenges in African societies (e.g. in
communities) or economy, including: software, mobile/wireless
technologies and local language software. It is about developing new
solutions that address everyday challenges that help Nigerians live
and work more effectively.
Manufacturing and Service Industry:
Innovations that have demonstrated a lead in addressing the key
pillars of innovation in production technology/industry: created high
added-value, greener, more customer -focused and/or high quality
products; manufacturing more with less input materials, using lowest
energy and creating fewest or zero waste. It is about helping people
across the continent literally build better lives.
HOW TO APPLY
Applications are registered via ( www.nse.org.ng/neip- apply-now).
You should consider submitting your application if you are a Nigerian
student, entrepreneur, corporate entity, academic and research
institution with an innovation that could potentially provide a
solution to some of the everyday challenges.
Below are specific guidelines on who can apply and how to apply:
i. Eligible innovations MUST be by Nigerians. Nigerians in the
Diaspora can also apply if their innovations are of significance to
Nigeria.
ii. An application with a full description of the innovation must be
sequentially explained with pictorial representation using PowerPoint.
iii. The innovation description should clearly illustrate the social
and/or economic outcome and impact with regard to Africa development
and the priority area chosen, and should be in line with the NEIP
assessment and selection criteria.
iv. Application and description of the innovation should be in English.
Applicants have the option to attach a letter of support/endorsement
from an institution or an authority with knowledge of their
innovation. This will serve as a testimony of how important the
innovation is in addressing development challenges faced by Nigerians.
There is no application fee.
PRIZE MONEY
The 2015 NEIP will consist of three Prize categories, awarded on three
separate levels for each category.
They are:
1. Schools (Institutions of learning and research).
2. Individuals: These are self-sponsored and independent of any organisation.
3. Corporate organisations and industry giants.
Levels of award in each category are;
(A) First Prize (N20M): This prize will be awarded to the innovator
with the overall best innovation that meets all the above-mentioned
NEIP criteria and has a clear business potential.
(B) Second Prize (N10M): This prize will be given to the selected
innovator with a commercially-driven innovation. In addition to the
aforementioned criteria, this category of award will be carefully
assessed on its marketability potential and will be awarded to the
innovation with the best commercial/business potential.
(C) Third Prize (N5M): This category of award will be assessed
carefully on its particular social impact in the community/country and
will be awarded to the innovation with the best social impact.In
arriving at an assessment of the application, the Selection Panel will
evaluate a submitted innovation against the following five criteria:
1) Originality: The uniqueness of the product and its superiority in
comparison with similar or alternative products in the market;
2) Marketability: The extent to which the innovation sufficiently
addresses the problem it seeks to solve at a price or model that is
accessible to the target market;
3) Scalability: The extent to which the innovation can be easily
applied to other similar markets beyond the applicant's immediate or
local environment;
4) Social impact: The ability of the innovation to create or effect
positive or desirable changes within the target community and beyond;
5) Scientific/technical aspects: For tangible technical/scientific
products; this refers to the extent to which the technical/scientific
specifications of the innovation are grounded on established science
and sufficiently address any anticipated product risks.
CLOSING DATE
This Year application will close by Friday, 31st July, 2015.

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Dating Online Tips for Women Over 30

Online dating can be daunting for anyone: You're expected to summarize
yourself in a pithy, entertaining profile and choose potential dates
from similar personality slices presented to you. Even for a
generation who has spent most or all of its adult life on social
media, the stakes (finding love) seem even higher. And if you're a
woman over 30, you've got to contend with anxieties over finding
someone more permanent, who matches your life goals, who is interested
in you beyond any baggage you might have picked up over the years.
Dating and relationship coach Ravid Yosef—whose online course
Determined to Love —shares over 30 online dating tips for keeping a
positive (but firm) attitude, as well as insights into creating a
clickable profile and when to go from messaging to meeting in the
flesh.
General Things to Keep in Mind
*.Date with a purpose. This is a major consideration that separates
how women in their 30s online date versus women in their 20s, Yosef
says. Women looking for a specific result should ask themselves key
questions: "What is their overall vision (the life they want to live)?
What is their short term goal (getting married or hooking up)? How are
they going to achieve this?"
*.It's a numbers game. With the ease and accessibility of online
dating, the truth is that everyone is going on lots of dates. "[Women
should] go on as many dates as they can," Yosef says. "Set a goal for
that. And be sure not to get frustrated by bad dates. Every date is an
opportunity to learn."Putting Together Your Profile
*.Include your must-haves. "It's important to think about what who you
are and what you want in a relationship when you write your profile,"
Yosef explains. "If there are things you feel are your must-haves, put
them in there (i.e., kids/family, active lifestyle, vegan, etc.). If
there are hobbies you want to share with your partner, talk about them
passionately in your profile. This will help to attract people with
common interests, and pause those who may not be looking for someone
who wants what you want."
*.Avoid aggressive wording. Yosef advises against talking about your
must-haves with phrases like "I want this" or "I don't want that." She
goes on to say, "Tell a story and talk about your passions in a
positive way. That should convey your wants and needs properly."
*.You can put a positive spin on anything. "For instance," Yosef says,
"you're not a workaholic, you're just passionate about your work. You
don't hate the fact that you have to online date, you're excited about
the prospect of meeting new people."
*.Variety is key with photos. "You need more than selfies," Yosef
says. "Have some full-body pictures, and use unfiltered pictures as
much as possible. If you have pictures doing the things you speak
passionately about, that's a bonus."Choosing Who to Message
*.Don't get hung up on minor things. Also, note the wording–women in
their 30s can't wait around for men to message them first. "You need
to be in tune with your gut here," Yosef says. "Take a look at their
profile and see what your gut says before your mind starts saying
'but.' If he seems like a nice guy and you have some things in common,
but he's not as tall as you would like, message him."
*.Think about the bigger picture. "If he seems like the type of guy
you want to end up with, but that's not your usual type, for God's
sake, message him."Moving from Messaging to Meeting In-Person
*.Yosef stresses that people should meet "as quickly as possible. The
longer you wait, the more likely you are to create a false sense of
connection. Studies have proven that the longer you wait, the more
disappointed you are in the person because you've hyped them up in
your head. You should graduate from message to text within 3-5
messages, and to phone or meet-up in 10."How to Approach Every Date
*."Have fun!" Yosef says. "Don't put so much pressure on yourself.
Enjoy the process of not only getting to know new people, but getting
to know yourself."

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5 Stages Of Falling In Love With Your Friend Benefits

Stage 1: You Won't, Under Any Circumstances, Catch Feelings.This is
the best stage. You're probably recently out of a relationship and
emotionally unavailable, but you're also s*xually frustrated.
One-night stands are an option, but let's face it: The morning after
and the walk of shame back to your apartment aren't as fun as when
you're doing it every single weekend.
Plus, you don't want to catch any diseases from strangers. What's the
next best option?
Doing it on a regular basis with someone you know and trust, without
the label of "significant other."
The beginning is so much fun. You get along with this person, you're
(hopefully) having bomb-ass s*x and there aren't any strings attached.
You never have to feel guilty when you're flirting with other people
or lazily flicking through Tinder.
There is just one unspoken rule: You two have to keep it this way for
as long as possible.
You're having fun at this point and you promise yourself that you
won't, under any circumstances, become attached.
Stage 2: You Start To Settle Into A Routine.The 4 am texts start to
become 2 pm texts and the two of you gradually settle into a
pleasantly predictable routine.
It's fairly comforting, and there are still no relationship
obligations you have to keep in mind.
You fit this person into your busy schedule and he or she fits
perfectly between the last class you have on Monday and dinner with
friends.
This is also a good stage because the two of you are still getting
along and ostensibly, want the same thing.
For many FWB relationships, this is the longest stage, and the rest of
your FWB relationship will ideally play out in this manner until one
of you gets bored or meets another person.
In some FWB relationships, however, this is the stage when you start
to become a little too comfortable in your routine. It brings up
feelings that are reminiscent of a relationship.
After all, you two are sharing a lot more than spit, and at this
point, you're doing so on a regular basis. Depending on the type of
person you are, this could lead to a lot of trouble.
Stage 3: You Start To Develop Feelings.You're lingering at your FWB's
house for longer and longer and now, the two of you have extended
activities from purely hooking up to actually talking and hanging out.
This keeps happening until one day, you wake up beside this person,
look over and start to freak out because you realize you genuinely
like him or her.
You like the way this person makes you laugh as much as you like the
way he or she make you come.
You start to fantasize about this person outside of the bedroom:
picking out vegetables at a farmer's market, picking out furniture at
IKEA or doing other non-s*xual relationship-type activities. Yikes.
At this stage, you consider breaking it off for a number of reasons.
Maybe your last relationship was a disaster and this arrangement was
only supposed to be a short-term thing.
Maybe you recognize you're falling for emotionally unavailable people
because you're emotionally unavailable yourself.
Despite your normally logical trains of thought, you can't deny your
feelings for this person.
Now, every time you come over, you experience a wave of nausea, or you
start to take certain actions that used to mean nothing to you more
seriously.
This person offered you carrots? Carrots mean nourishment, and if he
or she wants to nourish you, maybe he or she also has feelings for
you? You're going a little crazy at this point.
Stage 4: You Admit Your Feelings To Your FWB, And Everything Falls
Apart.Once you admit your feelings to your FWB, it could go one of two
ways. Ideally, of course, your FWB returns your feelings, and both of
you want to take the arrangement to the next level.
More often though, your FWB doesn't return your feelings, and the
house of cards the two of you built together so precariously falls
apart.
After all, if your FWB were the type of person who wanted to be in a
relationship, wouldn't he or she be in a relationship already?
You two may still meet every once in a while in order to relieve some
s*xual frustration, but once you admit your feelings and get rejected,
nothing is quite the same.
The fun you used to have with each other is replaced by a general
awkwardness created by the vacuum of his or her unreciprocated
feelings for you.
Every time you have s*x, you get a little more attached and just a
tiny bit more heartbroken. You do this until you realize you can't
handle it any longer.
Your arrangement ends, either with an ultimatum or with both parties
silently agreeing to never speak to one another again.
Stage 5: You Learn From Your Experience.Falling in love with someone
who doesn't return your feelings is messy when you factor s*x into the
equation.
This is the worst stage because there aren't any real guidelines to
help you when your FWB relationship inevitably dissolves.
How do you cope with the ending of a relationship that wasn't even
really a relationship?Your friends may be able to relate, but eating
ice cream straight out of the tub and staring at Netflix for a week
isn't exactly the best protocol for situations like these.
Honestly, your only option is to pick yourself back up, brush yourself
off and realize your FWB is just another person to add to your list of
experiences. You know you'll be okay in the end.

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